Love and languages those 5 love languages sound cheesy to melt in your life, however decoding them is little tough but this can certainly help your relationship enhance to great results.
Let’s take this as a challenge to make you understand what kind of signs really do work in love.
Dr Gary Chapman's The Five Love Languages is all about, it sounds pretty over-the-top lovely, oh wow when you really do think that you can apply this to your life- relationships, this can make your life much more sensible rather than just throw back the self-help book.
There is always a known mechanism for everything in the world of emotion that works with love. Dr Chapman really made people understand and communicate with their loved one;s to get the mystery of minds that are expecting more from each other which no one is able to get it normally.
There must be significance to each and every simple emotion in love and war as pain and gain do happen in both. Leaving the war aside, we ought to discuss being in love and languages to express them always.
Let us see what kind of love meters both of them so have by just answering these simple questions in the same way.
1. When you both feel bored what you would prefer to do?
2. What are the best ways of spending time with each other?
3. What make you feel happy in other person and why?
4. Selection of the partner have been obvious or by choice?
5. Going beyond the limits on any emotion is good or bad?
I believe if you can really answer these questions, truly by heart, that makes your life very easy as you might get you answer towards the status of love and objective towards it.
The general perception of people is they give love in the perception which they wanted to receive from the opposite person. We are sorry to say that 50-60% of people don’t succeed to get so due to many factors that are causing disturbances to the life. Sticky relationships are giving and taking.
But by understanding our partners' inherent love language, we can start to tear down walls in our romantic lives.
We all would love to finally learn and get to know what those love languages are.
Words of affirmation
According to many of the books, theories and studies made this is only being positive and be strong enough when you say “I Love You” as these words on regular compliments from the partner would make the bond strong enough and value to their world of love. Some of the negative words or painful words might be a cut deep as they won't be easily forgiven.
Attention is something that many of the couples lose in the day to day life. The language that u must give is attention which is undivided. The comfortable and satisfied time that a man can give to the partner is what a woman looks for all the time. Postponing dates, distraction, unusual failures of special events can be especially hurtful to other partner and being crucial for them can change the behaviour from them.
What if you receive gifts to someone loves you all the time. To be loved by someone is to receive a tangible gift that is a sign of saying that you remember them in thoughts and make them feel comfortable with lovable gifts they like the most. This really doesn't mean that the person is materialistic, but a thoughtful person to be appreciated.
Acts of service
Action speak more that words don’t you think so. People who can make their acts which are lovable to the partner by helping in the kitchen, helping in work, taking advice if good, promises for showing love and care will build strong relation. Lending a helping hand makes them feel that you really care.
To the person who really cares speaks with the language of graceful touch and this doesn’t really mean only in the bedroom. Daily emotions carry almost all the physical touch that can make them feel that you are there with them, everyday physical connections, like hand holding, kissing, etc is greatly appreciated.
According to Chapman, we need to favour that language of love that makes our love life shine knowing secrets that are revealed in living happily together.